Friday, November 25, 2011

Happily married couples. Are you and your spouse on the same page with each other?

ThanksHappily married couples. Are you and your spouse on the same page with each other?
Yes we are and still so much in loveHappily married couples. Are you and your spouse on the same page with each other?
In the important things that affect our lives we're always on the same page. It's not that our thought patterns are identical - they are not - but it seems we have enough confidence in one another to trust each other to take the lead in making certain decisions. We never argue about money, for example; not because we want to spend money on exactly the same things (we don't), but because I trust that when he makes a purchase he considers necessary or important, he is being responsible, and wouldn't have made this purchase if it was unwise to do so. Iit works the other way around, too: he doesn't question my judgment, as he knows that my judgment is good.





This is not to say we don't have differences in the way we see the world - we do; some aspects of our personalities are different (he is a little less social than me, I'm a little less flexible than him, etc.) But somehow we're always able to come up with a solution that suits both of us. We have very few disagreements.
On most things yes, on some, no.





On raising our kids, paying our bills, house work, ideas about future yes,





about politics we are on opposite sides, I am a libertarian and she is a liberal democrat. I am very aware of the excesses of government and how it effects our budget, she continues to think government is the only way to ';help poor people..';





During election years things can get pretty tense. Frankly my concerns about current direction of our country is something I will not discuss with her other then in passing about the debt it is creating for our kids.
Yeah most the time but when we are we find a way to talk it out and get though it. We are on the same page at least 98% of the time. Its very rare to not be.
we're opposite pages of each other, so when we close the book, we get squeezed against each other.
When we are happily married, most of the time, we are on the same page. I hate that phrase ';happily married'; because no one is ALWAYS happy.
Of course. That is what makes a happily married couple. You must always communicate to make sure you stay on the same page.
Brunette wifes husband who the hell are you lol.





And who said we have never had 1 cross word with each other?





I never did thats for sure.
Now? Yes.


Before? No.





It is lovely to be on the same page....
Absolutely...
page schmage... as long as we are on the same book, its all good! Theres a happy ending for each of us.
Been on the same page since day one...
50/50
Mostly. And if we aren't we talk it over like mature, rational people until I agree to bend to what she wants.
Usually.





And when we're not, we talk it out and find a page we can both be on..
Sure are. Your welcome.
Yep!
sure are
most of the time, and if not we talk about it and compromise
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