Can couples under 18 with a child and no money make it in life?

if they are willing to work their a$$es off. yes. but if they just want tings to start falling off the sky. then no. please be sure you are ready to have a child if you are having sex. do not bring a child to suffer or get pregnant to get a abortion. stay safe.Can couples under 18 with a child and no money make it in life?
Sure with the help of the government...it's prolly the only time they will help so take advantage and get your welfare if your eligible. I have had 2 kids by before I was 21 with little help but struggling money wise........If you have balls and nerves you can make anything work although it will be hard is doable.....Goodluck!Can couples under 18 with a child and no money make it in life?
Of course they can. It just takes a little more work for a teen than a stable adult.
yes. I thought my cousin was going in the wrong direction,getting arrested,hospitalizedd because he almost got killed over some bs,getting in trouble with the cops,homeless and he impreginated his girlfriend. and i cared about my cousin he is a good guy he just was having some hard times he was only 19 and his girlfriend was 18,he joined the army,got married to his girlfriend and turned his life around positive.
If they try their hardest, yes.
Life is going to be hard. You both have growing to do and you have to make sure you know what the word commitment means. Love is not enough....when you make a vow to each other you promise to try your hardest throughout your lives to trust each other...talk to each other...be open and honest with each other...respect each other and work on things when they get hard. AND THEY WILL GET HARDER.....very hard. Financially, and in every way.





If you can allow each other grow and not pull apart..if you can know that life isn't always roses....you will get bored...you will get tired of each other at times...you will need your space sometimes...but you will promise to come back and work on life and not give it up for another human being.





Sometimes you have to honor the marriage when you think you have fallen out of love....when you think someone else has your attention...etc. It is then that you remember your vow...your promise to that certain someone you said you would love forever.





Love is not always passion and good times. It is being there for someone when their nose is running..when they gain weight...when they have problems...when the babies keep you up at night and you have no makeup on or you might have to pitch in and help do laundry and feed the kids ...make dinner occasionally , vaccum a floor...even after 8 hours of work. It is hard...it is not play.





When you know you can put your children FIRST....their safety...their health...their needs...everything in the world comes first because they cannot get it themselves. They cannot solve your problems....you have to solve theirs. You have to make them feel safe...let them be children...let them be happy...and that means not arguing in front of them...not making them afraid of your anger or problems.





In other words you vow to put everyone first in your life...and whatever it is you need....well....occasionally you MIGHT get something....





You have to work on merging two lives together...two separate personalities...two different backgrounds and beliefs...two different views on life...two sets of values...two different ways of handling things....two different sets of family.....





It sometimes means losing yourself in all of that.





It means knowing that you cannot make someone happy and no one can make you happy. That has to come from within. IT means facing responsiblity and knowing that all decisions and choices have two people involved...and you cannot point the finger and say it is all your fault. When you do that you have to realize that three fingers are pointing back at you.





Facing responsibility means just that. Accepting your part in things....and not blaming someone else for what is wrong. Facing the consequences of your actions....no matter how big they are.





I can't say it won't work...but it takes maturity...and it takes emotional strength and it takes courage and faith and KNOWING SOMEONE to even THINK you can make it. People change all the time...and you have to allow that without being threatened...and you have to find a way to grow to keep your marriage together.





Many people who are 18 think they know it all and can do everything....and when they are older they realize how little they do know.





I am 61 honey...in one week married 42 years. I can tell you it is the best thing I ever did...and at times I wondered what I was thinking to marry someone PERIOD. I know..the older I get...the more realize how little I knew about life.





Life happens in a minute. It can change in one second. I had a beautiful granddaughter of 19 months old ...and the next day she was gone. I have a beautiful son and in one second he was dead for 3 minutes and then in a coma for 10 weeks...and in hospitals for 10 years.





You never know what is going to happen....is the person you are going to be with able to withstand that kind of pressure? Most marriages do not....





It could happen.....but if you could wait a couple years...if you could stay together and WAIT a few years....let yourselves grow a little....let yourselves really get to know what it is in life you want...then you have a better chance.





I am not saying it can't.....but you need support of both families...support of friends and people that can be there for you.....supporting BOTH of you emotionally and spiritually.





good luck in your decision.....make sure you take your time...you can always get married....but when you do...make sure you can make it...that you are in it for life...even when things seem impossible or love lost. It is then when you need each other...not so much when things are good.