Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Do couples who bicker have better relationships?

I always see two people who ';act like a married couple'; and the woman always smacks the man around and he laughs it off or they bicker about little things...





And then the people who make it look like everything's perfect... Who actually has the better relationship, and why?Do couples who bicker have better relationships?
My wife and I go through that. It depends on the mental stability of the people in the couple. Some people have the strength to endure the bickering and some don't. If you've been through it with other lovers, you might not last long with another one like that. No relationship is perfect, no matter how well they get along or last. Some things are just not worth the breath it takes to argue about.Do couples who bicker have better relationships?
Neither. And they are both trying to make the relationship, what it is not. Both are extremes. The ones who fight a lot, and almost enjoy it - are mal-communicating. The ones who don't fight at all, and just act pretty - probably don't communicate at all. Both lack proper and ample communication skills, and are acting out in a different way.





Bickering is never good for a relationship - but the element of communication, is. The best kind of relationship, is one where both people love and respect each other as they do, themselves; where communication is open, honest, and regular. Disagreement is healthy, only in that it indicates individuality - which is good, of itself. But HOW you express that disagreement, is what determines the good or bad. Having a lot in common is one thing, but something is wrong if two people NEVER disagree. Why? Because we are so fearfully and wonderfully made, that each person is too unique to exactly mimick someone else. And behaving that way indicates a lack of individuality, and unhealthy deferrence or compromise.
That's a pretty general question for a pretty specific situation. Myself, I hate bickering and fighting. I'd rather just leave the situation than fight.
The people who have problems over little sh it, they are keeping it real.
Bickering expresses they are getting everything out of their system. What bothers them, whats on their mind. This actually helps a lot, makes you have a more quality relationship because you know what ticks them off and what not to do. Keeping it looking perfect looking isn't always the best because you bottle everything up and someday you'll explode, this can lead to serious consecuences. So a little bickering is healthy. Just don't bicker too much.
the bickering ppl. the ';perfect people'; are either so dumb they comply with everything because they have no opinion, or they are too low in selfesteem to fight. of course you dont want to fight all the time- but it helps to fight some.
you obviously cant be older than 14. But no, its better to not bicker.... but at the same time express when something makes you mad
Ok, bickering to an extent is fine and healthy...all the time is bad. But if you never disagree bout anything then it sounds like there is something wrong b/c it means...that when one of you gets bothered by something u brush it off and dont say anything (which is obviously bad). Bickering shows that you tell each other what bothers you etc...agn a lil bickering is healthy...a lot o'bickering...is BAD lol

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